I’ve managed not to break my abstinence streak, 63 days now. Day 59 was a close call, as was 60. Things have simmered down a bit, thank the lord. I’m thinking that there may have been a hormonal component, which didn’t occur to me at the time, but makes some sense now.
I don’t think I’ve noticed any kind of PMS symptoms before, but let’s be honest, I was probably too hungover most days to notice much more than that. In any event, I’m just glad the rage and cravings are waning.
I am having some anxiety over a visit to my mother, scheduled for tomorrow. I have managed to avoid her thus far this holiday season, but my aunt is in town for a few days which means my sister will feel obligated to go over there and I feel obligated to provide moral support for her.
My mother has managed, over the course of the last few months, to alienate the only offspring that was spending any time with her. She trotted out the religion card, telling my sister that since she had been baptized but was not living in accordance with the religion, that she would have essentially have to shun her.
This is complete bullshit for several reasons. First, my mom is a terrible piece of shit hypocrite that any god in his (or her) right mind wouldn’t want representing acceptable behavior. Second, it makes no sense that it’s cool to hang out with me, even though I have nothing to do with the religion, just on the basis of my non-baptism. So dumb.
Anyhow, the worst part is that my sister is very sensitive to her lapse in practice and so this hurts her deeply, even though her logical mind also recognizes that it’s bullshit. My mom knows this hurts her and that’s why she says what she does. Not because she cares about anyone’s everlasting salvation, but because she’s fucking evil. She also knows that my sister is deeply sensitive about her weight, so she basically calls her fat every chance she gets.
So tomorrow is likely to be a shit show. It’s also at 3:30 in the afternoon. Who schedules things like that? It’s way too late for lunch and far too early for dinner. Selfish people schedule shit that way. That’s who. I hope that bitch stays on her best behavior tomorrow because if she makes my sister sad, I’m going to let her know what a monster she is.
So, yeah. Fun times. Excellent environment for sobriety. Can’t wait.